THE DAY BEFORE THANKSGIVING, HIS WIFE DIED. TWENTY DAYS LATER, THE MAN WHO SANG “SHE’S ACTIN’ SINGLE” WAS GONE TOO. Gary Stewart never sounded polished enough for safe country. He came out of Jenkins, Kentucky, then grew up around Fort Pierce, Florida, after his coal-miner father was hurt and the family moved south. Before Nashville turned him into the “King of Honky Tonk,” he was a young man working days, playing nights, and learning how to make a broken room sound honest. The break did not come clean. He wrote songs. Lost record deals. Cut demos. Got passed around the edges of Nashville until RCA finally gave him the right room and the right producer. In 1974, “Drinkin’ Thing” broke into the Top 10. In 1975, “Out of Hand” hit hard. Then “She’s Actin’ Single (I’m Drinkin’ Doubles)” went to No. 1. That song made him sound like the man in the corner of every bad bar in America — jealous, drunk, wounded, still too proud to beg. But Gary Stewart’s life never stayed inside the record. By 2003, Mary Lou, his wife of nearly 43 years, was the one steady thing left. She died of pneumonia on November 26, the day before Thanksgiving. Gary canceled shows. Friends later said the loss crushed him. On December 16, 2003, he was found dead at his home in Fort Pierce. The man who made drinking songs sound like survival had reached the one loss he could not sing his way through.
“Scroll down to the end of the article to listen to music.” GARY STEWART LOST THE WOMAN WHO SURVIVED THE…